Actually, It was another LJ user. We were discussing how some people have too much drama in their lives. I found my experience just now to be a perfect example of that….
So I was hanging out with a friend of mine that I haven’t seen in quite some time. Her friend answered her phone and told the guy who had called where they were and he showed up (This was some guy she had met a few days earlier). Only minutes after telling me and her friend that she didn’t like the guy, they’ve got their lips locked and seem pretty damn close. After that we go inside before this guy and she again says that she doesn’t like him and that she’s going to tell him to get lost (which she said she was going to do well before he got there).
At that point, I decided to leave. I said goodbye to her and her friend and quietly offered to give her a ride somewhere so she could get away from the guy, but she declined. She’s a pretty cool girl, at least she can be when she wants to be. I’d be fine if she decided she wanted to hook up with every guy in the bar and did so, but I won’t sit and watch her claim she doesnt like someone and act completely opposite. I don’t know if she was lying to me or to herself, but theres a clear indication of just what I’m NOT looking for in a woman.
Had she told me she liked the guy, I would still be sitting there, possibly buying a round of drinks! It’s a shame when a grown woman still feels the need to bring drama into her life.